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I write about the parts of life we usually keep tucked away. The messy family dynamics, the friendships that test your limits, the moments where you want to help so badly you end up carrying more than your share. I have learned the hard way that love without boundaries can turn into burnout, and that saving people is not the same as supporting them.
I live with severe heart failure with left ventricular dysfunction, atrial fibrillation, autoimmune pancreatitis, and type 2 diabetes. Those words look clinical on a screen, but in real life they shape everything, my energy, my choices, my priorities, and my patience for what no longer matters. They have forced me to slow down and pay attention, not just to my body, but to the patterns in my life and the people around me.
My story is also carried by culture. Papua New Guinean roots and Torres Strait Islander strength have taught me about resilience, loyalty, and the quiet power of knowing where you come from. The ocean is a constant reference point for me. It reminds me that tides change, that storms pass, and that you can return to yourself even after you have been pulled in too deep.
This blog is my way of making sense of it all, in real time. If you are someone who loves hard, gives too much, or keeps showing up for people who are not ready to show up for themselves, you will probably see yourself in these pages. My hope is that you leave feeling less alone, more honest with yourself, and brave enough to choose a life that actually holds you back.
Discover a space dedicated to authentic storytelling, professional insights, and meaningful discussions led by Edward Solien, an advocate for Diversity, Equity, Justice, Inclusion, and Belonging. Whether you’re here to explore the personal journey of a proud Torres Strait Islander with deep roots in social justice and reconciliation or to gain professional insights on reconciliation leadership and strategies for equity and inclusion, you’re in the right place.
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Welcome to my page. I'm Eddie Solien, a Leader in Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging Lead and Reconciliation Action Plan Programmes passionate about driving organisational change towards more inclusive and equitable practices. Spearheading initiatives that make a tangible difference in embedding inclusive cultures within organisations.
My professional journey is deeply personal, shaped by significant health challenges, including severe heart failure with left ventricle dysfunction, atrial fibrillation with a 16% output reduction ejection fraction, Auto Immune Pancreatitis, and Type 2 Diabetes. These experiences have granted me resilience and a unique perspective on the importance of accessibility, healthcare, and workplace accommodations. As a proud member of the LGBTIQA+ community and someone who identifies as Torres Strait Islander and Papua New Guinean, I bring a multifaceted view to my work in social justice and equity.
In early 2023, I embarked on a blogging journey to 'brain dump' and transpose my thoughts and experiences onto virtual paper. This platform has become a space for reflection, sharing insights, and connecting with others on topics ranging from health challenges and identity to inclusion in the workplace. It's an extension of my commitment to social justice, offering another avenue to advocate for change and share stories that might otherwise go unheard.
With a background in human resources, I understand the intricacies of organisational dynamics and the critical role that Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging principles play in creating environments where everyone feels valued and empowered. I believe in moving beyond policy to foster a culture that sees diversity as its greatest asset.
The imperative for genuine inclusion and equity becomes increasingly paramount as the world evolves. I am dedicated to leading by example, championing innovative strategies to break down barriers, and nurturing spaces where diversity is celebrated.
I invite you to connect and join me in this journey towards creating more inclusive, equitable workplaces and communities. Together, we can make a difference.
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Immerse yourself in heartfelt stories and reflections on culture, community, and social justice. Discover how lived experiences shape Edward’s approach to Diversity, Equity, and Belonging and learn from his journey towards reconciliation.
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Stay informed with practical resources, expert insights, and impactful discussions on reconciliation leadership, inclusion, and social equity. Join Edward as he explores how we can create more inclusive spaces and promote sustainable change across industries.
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